Questions & Answers

We will be having an evening wedding—the exact ceremony time is still to be determined. Following the ceremony, there will be a cocktail hour and dinner reception.

We ask guests to please dress in formal to cocktail attire, and to bring a masquerade mask for our subtle Phantom of the Opera theme. Following the ceremony, part of the cocktail hour and reception will be a masquerade. We request guests "dress up" by wearing their masquerade mask.

Please do not wear the Phantom mask.

If you have questions or would like guidance on what to wear, please visit our Dress Code page.

Our wedding will be held in Moorpark, CA, near Underwood Family Farms. The venue's address will shared with guests when we receive your RSVP response, closer to the wedding date.

We are so excited to celebrate this special day surrounded by our family and friends. Only those formally invited on your wedding invitation can be accommodated. If you have a plus one, it will be noted on your personal invitation.

While we adore your children, we have chosen for our wedding day to be a 21+ occasion. We hope this advance notice means you are still able to share our big day.

We are hoping to have a more causal gathering the day before to have a chance to all actually hang out. If we do have a relaxed get together the Friday before the wedding, we would love to have anyone under 21 join us if they are able.

We have a hotel block with the Palm Garden Hotel in Thousand Oaks. This hotel is about 15 minutes from the venue. If you would like more information about the hotel block, please click here!

Staying at the Palm Garden Hotel is not required. Please use Underwood Family Farms' address, 3370 Sunset Valley Rd, Moorpark, CA 93021, as a reference, if you are interested in other accommodations.

Yes! The venue has ample complimentary parking for all guests.

The ceremony will take place outdoors in a beautiful courtyard. The reception will be held inside a structure that is protected from the elementes.

October in Moorpark is typically warm and pleasant, with average temperatures in the low-60s to mid-70s°F. We recommend bringing a light jacket or wrap for the evening as temperatures can cool down.

Yes! We will be serving a buffet-style dinner.

Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift of all. However, if you wish to honor us with a gift, we would appreciate any support for our honeymoon fund. For more information, please visit our Registry page for more information.

Yes, we will have a full open bar featuring wine, beer, and signature cocktails throughout the reception.

We have hired a professional photographer to capture our special day. We kindly ask that you enjoy the ceremony unplugged and refrain from taking photos or videos during the ceremony itself. Please feel free to take photos during the reception!

Please indicate any dietary restrictions or allergies when you RSVP. Our caterer can accommodate vegetarian, gluten-free, and most other dietary needs.