Questions & Answers
We have compiled answers to some of the most common questions about our wedding day. If you don't see your question answered here, please don't hesitate to reach out!
We ask guests to please dress in formal to cocktail attire, and to bring a masquerade mask for our subtle Phantom of the Opera theme. Following the ceremony, part of the cocktail hour and reception will be a masquerade. We request guests "dress up" by wearing their masquerade mask.
Please do not wear the Phantom mask.
If you have questions or would like guidance on what to wear, please visit our Dress Code page.
Please refer to your invitation for the venue's address. If you have lost your invitation, or did not receive it in the mail, please reach out to us.
While we adore your children, we have chosen for our wedding day to be a 21+ occasion. We hope this advance notice means you are still able to share our big day.
We are planning to hang out at Tarantula Hill Brewing Co. on Friday from around 12pm to about 4pm to get the chance to actually spend time with guests before our big day. If anyone under 21 would like to attend, we would love to see them there!
We have a hotel block with the Palm Garden Hotel in Thousand Oaks. This hotel is about 15 minutes from the venue. If you would like more information about the hotel block, please click here! The last day to reserve a room at the room block's discounted rate is September 28th, 2026.
Staying at the Palm Garden Hotel is not required. Please use Underwood Family Farms' address, 3370 Sunset Valley Rd, Moorpark, CA 93021, as a reference, if you are interested in other accommodations.
Still Have Questions?
If your question wasn't answered here, please feel free to reach out to us directly at holmrewers@gmail.com. We're happy to help!